Growing up in a dysfunctional household, is just as it sounds – dysfunctional. I grew up in a chaotic household where most times I didn’t feel safe or secure. I grew up thinking this was a normal family dynamic, until I entered the foster system at the age of 16. My whole world along with my 7 other siblings was turning upside down.

All these emotions such as anxiety, depression, fear, abandonment quickly hit the surface. I learned that I had so much childhood trauma and mental health issues I had to unpack. With lots of therapy and self-healing I’ve learned that while my past will always be a part of me, it does not have to define my future.

I am currently a part of Promises2Kids Guardian Scholars program. During my time in this program, I have gained a community of former foster youth who all have similar experiences. This community has helped me be more open to sharing my story, and in return I hope it encourages other foster youth to share their own. I’ve learned the importance of advocating for myself and other youth. Our voices might not have been heard as kids, we can be seen and heard now as young adults.

While I originally went to school for cosmetology and worked at a salon, I realized that I wanted to do something that had a greater impact. I am currently enrolled at Stanbridge University as a nursing student and at MiraCosta working towards my degree in Psychology. My life journey has not been easy, but it has made me have compassion and empathy for others that I hope to help in the future with my career path.

Galatians 5:22 lists the fruit of the spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. I aspire to break the trauma cycle from my past and radiate these characteristics onto others.